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BDSM 101: Basics of the Flogger by Red Phoenix (Part 1 of 2)

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BDSM 101

Basics of the Flogger by Red Phoenix
(Part 1 of 2)

This is a tool I adore and highly recommend—even though I’m a girl who doesn’t enjoy pain.
Are you curious about floggers and why there are a variety of them?

The Flogger 

Floggers are a type of whip that has multiple tails. Initially used as a form of corporal punishment, it has been adopted by the BDSM community to enhance sexual play.

The thickness of the tails and what they are made of directly affects the sensation you will feel. Basically a flogger will deliver either a thuddy or stingy lash.

Thuddy floggers are made of light to medium weight leather such as deer or cowhide. They can provide a variety of experiences from a nice gentle massage to more challenging strokes that take your breath away. FYI, the more tails a flogger has the more pronounced the thud felt upon impact.

Stingy floggers have thinner tails and are made of heavier leather such as buffalo hide or oiled leather. They tend to have fewer tails and pack quite a bite.

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Fun Fact: The floggers of today aren’t just made of leather. You can also find them in chain, rubber, animal hair, as well as various types of rope. Depending on the material used, the receiver can experience a feathery-light tickling to a welt-worthy encounter.

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You decide what you like best. I’m a thud girl myself. ~Red

 

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Day 1 – A Story About Love that Saves (FREE read)

A beautiful and erotic tale about the healing power of love.
When a young girl tries to kill herself, a man of great character intervenes with a love that heals.

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Day 2 – A Story About A Scarred Hero (FREE read)

This tale about the fierce love of a young woman for the outcast will inspire you!
A young girl falls in love with the new student, nicknamed “the Freak” because of his many scars.

In 9 Days by Red Phoenix: http://amzn.to/2fJiQHp
Day 3 – A Story About True Love (.99 read)

A tale of loyalty & longing – and a gift of the heart.
This sequel to the story, In 9 Days, delves into the emotional reunion of two longtime lovers.

9 Days and Counting by Red Phoenix: http://amzn.to/2fJoJ7x
Day 4 – A Story About Loyalty and Love (.99 read)

Perfect for couples! This tale provides the kinky spice you can take straight to the bedroom.
A desperate wife lives out her fantasies at noon for five glorious days…

Play With Me at Noon by Red Phoenix: http://amzn.to/2fAbGdk
Day 5 – A Story About Werewolf Love (.99 read)

A beautiful tale of love that unites a dying woman returning to Scotland with a wounded werewolf who can’t let her go.
Two lost souls, the Moon, and a death wish…

By the Light of the Scottish Moon by Red Phoenix: http://amzn.to/2g3EBD4

Day 6 – A Story About Kinky Guidance (.99 read)

The sexy tale of a curious lady who falls hard for an online Dom.
A mature and curvaceous woman becomes fascinated by the Dom, Socrates, who agrees to teach her.

Socrates Inspires Cherry to Blossom by Red Phoenix: http://amzn.to/2gDZtnI
Day 7 – A Story About Devotion of the Heart (FREE read)

This is an edgy erotic tale of a young werewolf who will do anything to protect her people – even if it involves four Alpha males…
A virginal werewolf must act as the clan’s mysterious Keeper.

The Keeper of the Wolf Clan by Red Phoenix: http://amzn.to/2ghE7vT

Day 8 – A Story About The Love of Four Alphas (3.99 read)

The full tale of what happens after the story, The Keeper of the Wolf Clan.
A romantic and edgy erotic tale of duty, love and betrayal in the mystical world of werewolves.

Keeper of Wolves (boxed set) by Red Phoenix: http://amzn.to/2fE5elS
Day 9 – A Story About A White Knight in Vampire Clothing (2.99 read)

Dark things come in pretty packages…

A dark, but oh so sexy vampire tale. Our hero navigates the dangerous world he has been thrust into with lusty passion and heart.

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Day 10 – A Story About Friends to Lovers (3.99 read)

A badly placed mistletoe can cause all kinds of trouble…
A tale of two friends who are meant for each other if fate would only cooperate. True love always finds a way.

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Day 11 – A Story About Scottish Kilts and Kink (3.99 read)

Can innocent love conquer a curse?
A sexy Dom escapes to Scotland in the late 1400s. He encounters a young waif who has the potential to free him from his tragic curse.

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Day 12 – A Sexy Story About Being Snowbound… (FREE read)

Snow will take on a whole new sexy meaning after you read this!
A hot little tale exploring what happens when two friends suddenly find themselves in a situation where hidden love can flourish.

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Day 13 – A Story About Menage! (3.99 read)

The full story of what happens after Blissfully Snowbound…
How lucky can a girl get? Three friends take on the sensual journey of a MFM ménage à trois.

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Day 14 – A Story About the Sensual World of BDSM (FREE read)

A young woman attends the Submissive Training Center.
She has no idea the things that will be asked of her or the boundaries that will be pushed—but she’s eager to find out.

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Day 15 – A Story About A Love so True… (3.99 read)

Written under my other pen name. <3
Phoenix of the Heart is a powerful story about the transforming power of love.
A handsome stranger rescues Beth from total humiliation – his unconditional love becomes the catalyst for her incredible journey.

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Day 16 – A Story About New Beginnings (3.99 read)

Written under my other pen name. <3
A sequel to Phoenix of the Heart, Beth faces the new season of her life with courage and humor.
Despite a devastating loss, she’s determined to fully embrace her future supported by a love that endures.

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Hugs! ~Red

 

Gift of Words – A Holiday Celebration Day 4 by Red Phoenix

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Red Phoenix Celebrates the Holiday Season

*A Gift of Words*

 

Day 4 – A Story About Loyalty and Love (.99 read)

Perfect for couples! This tale provides the kinky spice you can take straight to the bedroom.

A desperate wife lives out her fantasies at noon for five glorious days…

Play With Me at Noon 

by Red Phoenix

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You Have to See This! Brie in Minature – Based on the Brie Series by Red Phoenix

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I could not believe the incredible gift I received from Mandi Corman.

It is tribute to the Brie Series in miniature!

At first this looks like a normal Christmas Ornament –

but it’s not!

Let me show you…

The bear sits on a stack of books, and those books happen to be:

 Brie Learns the Art of Submission

Brie Embraces the Heart of Submission

Brie Masters Love in Submission

Each book has a little drawer, and inside each drawer there are miniature items related to each book!

To give you some perspective I put a penny next to it.

So the first drawer for Brie Learns the Art of Submission had this:

Cigarettes (Winstons and Fantasia)

Chocolate Syrup

Pearl Necklace

Poster of Sir’s Father

and

Brie’s Fantasy Journal

The second drawer for Brie Embraces the Heart of Submission had this:

Brie’s Documentary Script

The CD of the Final Copy

Egg Cookbook

Bullwhip

Brie Cheese

Russian Vodka

and

Tono Art for toriko

The third drawer for Brie Masters Love in Submission ha this:

Magic Wand

Jute

A Belt

Lube

Dildo

Cat ‘o Nines

and

The Cutest Little Ball Gag

Mandi also added details to the top and bottom of the ornament.

On the top there is:

Brie’s Camera

Brie’s Collar & Key

Mary’s Journal

Lea’s Joke Book

The Lace Blindfold

and

The Bear Holds a Sign “#1 Sub”

She even put the back of the book on the bottom!

This small ornament holds so many tiny surprises! I can’t believe the time and talent it took to make this.

Thank you, Mandi, from the bottom of my heart.

Every Christmas I will think about you as I open the little drawers and admire the gifts inside.

Love, ~Red

Gift of Words – A Holiday Celebration Day 3 by Red Phoenix

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Red Phoenix Celebrates the Holiday Season

*A Gift of Words*

Day 3 – A Story About True Love (.99 read)

A tale of loyalty & longing – and a gift of the heart.

This sequel to the story, In 9 Days, delves into the emotional reunion of two longtime lovers.

9 Days and Counting

by Red Phoenix

 http://amzn.to/2fJoJ7x 

Gift of Words – A Holiday Celebration Day 2 by Red Phoenix

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Red Phoenix Celebrates the Holiday Season

*A Gift of Words*

 

Day 2 – A Story About A Scarred Hero (FREE read)

This tale about the fierce love of a young woman for the outcast will inspire you!

A young girl falls in love with the new student, nicknamed “the Freak” because of his many scars.

In 9 Days

by Red Phoenix

http://amzn.to/2fJiQHp

Gift of Words – A Holiday Celebration Day 1 by Red Phoenix

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Red Phoenix Celebrates the Holiday Season

*A Gift of Words*

 Day 1 – A Love that Saves (FREE read)
 

A beautiful and erotic tale about the healing power of love. 

When a young girl tries to kill herself, a man of great character intervenes with a love that heals.

 

And Then He Saved Me

by Red Phoenix:

http://amzn.to/2gGSBCw

 

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A Cowboy’s Heart: Brie’s Submission by Red Phoenix

51oLqQJYJpLAre you ready for the Bullwhip Master? Just released!

Master Brad Anderson is a man on a mission – to protect those he loves.

Find out what happens when love and loyalty collide.

A cowboy can’t resist a damsel in distress…

Brad Anderson, the bullwhip master, has guarded his heart ever since a certain redhead broke it. After attending the wedding of his best friend, Master Anderson decides to find his own happy ending. However, it seems Fate has different plans when he finds himself protecting a damsel in distress.

Will this cowboy at heart ever let down his guard long enough to allow true love to flow in? Find out what happens when love and loyalty meet Fate head on.

* A portion of the story Includes the short “Stud Poker” part of the retired anthology, One Night in Vegas. It is important part of Master Anderson’s journey.

Master Brad Anderson, the Bullwhip Master is no exception.

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Brie Bennett’s life is about to change the day Sir Thane Davis discovers her working in a tiny tobacco shop…
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